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daily exercises to increase self-esteem

Sono anni ormai che nei più disparati settori sentiamo parlare di autostima .

Di autostima si discorre nel mondo del lavoro, nelle relazioni sentimentali, nei rapporti familiari e in generale in ogni forma di realizzazione personale.
Ma cosa si intende realmente per autostima e perché può condizionare il nostro benessere emotivo e fisico?

E’ difficult to give an unambiguous definition, but it is certain that as many psychologists point out some clarifying attitudes of a person who believes in herself.

Consider a few:

• Say what you think without fear
• act according to his wishes and not those of other Knowing
• say "no" - "enough" and "do not know"
• Experience can make mistakes and accepting no blame for their mistakes
• Knowing how to ask for help and declare their fears and frailties
• persevere and not lose heart in difficult times
• To diminish
• Remember that you are able to overcome any failure
• follow their own inclinations even if it results in moments of solitude
• know that we live to be happy and not to suffer, endure or not to forgive mistakes of others
• Remember that compliance with if the first is to love someone else
• know that is our right to change his mind and is not a sign of inconsistency but of reflection
• not be afraid of the future
• judge themselves in a positive way by accepting their limitations and giving up perfectionism toward you and toward others

Of these characteristics, we can recognize as many of us e quali sono ancora molto lontano? Quante volte al giorno siamo accomodanti e non autentiche verso chi si relaziona con noi?

Saper dire no ad una richiesta che non possiamo realizzare o semplicemente affermare, durante una discussione, che non si è d’accordo su quanto esposto, significa amare se stessi, aumentare la propria autostima e considerarsi degni di rispetto e di valore.

Cambiare se stessi e la propria autostima è un lavoro piuttosto lungo che può durare anni ma ci condurrà al benessere quotidiano e alla realizzazione personale. Come farlo? Cominciamo da semplici esercizi di aiuto all’auto- consapevolezza :

• Ricordiamoci che ogni When we betray not express what we think or , we are hurting.
• consider that our culture, the Catholic press has taught us that "bear" the other is a quality and that selfishness is condemnable. Even the most ardent atheist is influenced by the social context in which they live. L 'instead selfishness is healthy if it provides for the care and love for themselves and is also the best way to stay close to others. Whenever you take something that you do not want to take away life energy that could instead give your loved ones if I was more authentic. Let us meditate on the effect
• of our actions. How do we feel when we express our opinion or our desires only to be accommodating? Let's hear how it responds to our emotional state. With practice you will notice that in these cases, we immediately change the mood and feel that a state of nervousness or restlessness that can last hours.
• E 'success anyone to feel offended for a behavior or a phrase of a colleague, friend or family member but do not say anything about it. Usually we get stuck and the words do not come out. We begin to exercise and meditate on how we feel. We are restless, angry, we would like to remove that person. If words are not to argue, we try to write them. Very often people do not say what they think for fear of losing another. The paradox is that not just the talk we could lose the other because it will create invisible barriers that in time will become enormous walls.
  

At this point it is easy to understand the effects of low self-esteem. If self-esteem is the image we have of ourselves and of our value and we think we do not even have the right to say "no" or "disagree", it is clear that there even will authorize rights more important as having a relationship or a satisfying well-paid job.

fundamental is to learn to not blame those who offend us or treat us like we . Let's take our responsibilities. If you have asked us something and we assist in the application while not wanting to do, we who have decided to do it. We could say no. Every time that we will be genuine, we will rebuild our self-esteem. They are small and consistent steps that will improve the idea we have of ourselves and enable us to live fully and serenely.

Dr. Sara Giovannini
(ilmiocounselor@gmail.com)