not want to do that It has been here a certain number of months and got all of the people with years of history and feels superior NO.
After this introduction, just to clarify, everything scrivero'sara'solo result of a deep reflection made during the year against the background of Italian culture. Thus, as cerchero'di be impartial many things will be just as comparison between the two nations. I understand that perhaps if I were German, American etc.. certain things I would not have even noticed.
The Swedes, as they say, respond to the injury of being "cold." This term does not mean that glaciers are in relationships with other people, but just far away. Of course if you ask for extra help, for example at school or on the bus (located where people do not like to talk or meet new people, and I have known brave men on public transport) will show available. But the real problem lies in entering into their lives, nell'rompere that barrier that transforms us from strangers to friends. It is difficult, It is very difficult. In particular, if not a few people I have some specific reason that provides the bridge between the two islands.
Anche la loro visione del tempo non aiuta (in particolare per un intercambista come lo sono io). Tutto e´stra schematico e stra proggettato da mesi. Se mai doveste venire in Svezia preparatevi a sentire cose come "a natale nella settimana tot e tot andiamo qui" in pieno agosto, oppure "a febbraio andiamo a fare la settimana bianca" ad ottobre. E non parlo solo di viaggi, che, ovvio, devo essere programmati ma anche di cene con amici, uscite settimanali, tabelle di autobus, orari di scuola ecc.
Spesso rimane poco spazio per i sentimenti, per lasciare una persona entrare nelle loro vite, per conoscersi pian piano facendo anche cose stupide come guardare un film.
Dalla mia esperienza personale posso dirvi che tutte le volte that there was a program or a scheme, I was left alone. E'mai not been a problem, pero'l'hanno done. C'e'mai output was not a family, a spontaneous gift, a joke, NO, everything had to be programmed. Many tell me that I have a strong character and I do not shot down, so I notice these pero'ogni distance that have never been able to be interpreted as indifference liberta'o .
I made, and I'm always convinced piu'che the primary problem is the communication . I see the little things. From all those people who looked at me in school but want to ask things that have not done before (and I speak also of same principal and my mentor who has e'scusata end of the year for not having enough then) from my host sister to ask if that can take my place on the computer or simply send Cajsa find another occupation. Communication, one of the things that we are lucky to have and that does not exist anywhere, able to express ourselves and say we turn cio'che and feel, a man of property piu'grande puo'avere.
Ok, puo'sembrare he's just talking about me and then this problem does not relate at all. But It is a problem they have with each other, the Swedes. There would be countless examples to be done such as the fact that I never saw my host sister to talk to parents or to receive a scolding or confide. I've never seen a person cry for another in the street just to call it. And this looks like a cabbage, but it is not '. Perche'vuol say that if you do not call that person maybe he or she will not have his way and prendera'la piu'la possibilita'di tell him or be with. Now I understand
perche'la sweden piu'alta It is a country with the percentage of youth suicides. And there fore the grounding that six months of the year between home and work are riuschisi perche'fa too cold to go out. If the problem does
It is the communication, then perche'hanno all need a beer or liquor to express themselves and be together without thinking about what might think of others? I accept suggestions ...
I wish I could be scope for scirttura and write a nice final emotional and effective, but unfortunately they are not. It is the end of me And then this ...
My esperinza It has been one of the things that's most beautiful I could have happened and that I've ever done. I would do everything exactly the start. No regrets.
PS To all prospective interchanged for Sweden or Scandinavia: do not be frightened by my words, and enjoy all this', at times, piu'semplice than it looks, believe me! and above all depends on what kind of personalita'avete.
Take everything I wrote it as a help and a preparation for a great year.
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